When you love someone so much,
you’re willing to do anything and everything for that person.
Love can have so many definitions that only few can understand.
Love is not by word of mouth but what you do for someone and more.
People tend to mistake Infatuation for Love, that obsession they have, the attention they like to get.
Pardon me, but that is where I think the problem starts.
They are drawn by attention, drawn by what one has, by what one can do.
Love is meant to look at the heart, despite how happy one can make you, if you don’t feel attached.
Appearance is a bonus factor, that is what I think.
I mean come on friends make people happy, so does family, and yet we tend to conclude that a man can make us happy.
Don’t get me wrong he can.
Others just fail to see beyond what that happiness may actually mean.
Now a days we tend to see a lot of dilemmas; cheating, lust, materialism, lies, oh yes the lies!
Why lie to the one you Love ?
Why hide things from the one you Love?
Why not be free and be who you are with the one that you Love?
Do you really Love him?
Do you really Love her?
When two people are in Love, it is more than that, some people may be soul mates, others best friends, but the best is when you fall in Love with your Best friend and soul mate.
They say you can fall in Love, but falling in Love with your soul mate is another.
You may tend to ask; How do you know it’s your soul mate?
Well, According to Jerry McGuire he states that;” Soul Mates complete each other. A person is unable to complete his mission in life alone. Everyone needs someone to help them become a better person. This is not always a blissful experience.
Being in an honest, sincere, and committed soul mate relationship helps you to become a better version of yourself. You have to push yourself beyond your comfort zone, beyond your limits to find your better self.”
Of course people have different opinions.
Then comes the cheating, when I was told ; “Once bitten twice shy”. Oh that saying is true. Once you’re cheated on, the courage to love again is lost. Or Almost. We all tend to ask, why do the bad things happen to the good? Well, it only makes us stronger and an EXample that we shall not EXperience that again hence the term “EX”. Get it? haha. The things of this world.
Lust- my understanding is being physically attracted to someone, to the point that the mind makes you think you are in Love. Emphasis on the word “physical”, we get so carried away by what we see, we lose sight of what really matters ;The Inside. What we forget is appearances fade, we all age.
We see it as a need not a want. People are obsessed with the word “perfect”, A word that is ambiguous. What I can see or say as the definition of perfect, can be called ugly by someone else. So what happens? Will we be depressed because one person finds you ugly? Or that you lost someone you thought you had a chance with because they don’t see you the way your ex-ample saw you? We do not live this life to please people, we live this life for ourselves.
Fact #101; In life, we are never going to please everyone.
Agree? Well, we agree to disagree.
Liking or Loving someone because of what they have ? Materialism.
I think everything including appearance is materialistic.
Why look at the money that one has?
Why look at their stage in life?.
We are all destined for greatness, Their time has simply not come yet.
Why leave then? Actually that is the perfect time to stay. The time to grow with someone, the person you are most likely to live the rest of your life with.
Will you neglect your soul mate because of their current situation?
In the moment, we never think of the future. Do we?
I think I talk too much haha.
Let me just say a little about trust.
Trust is both emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. An aspiring model makes her man, her manager. Both of them agree that specific amounts will be the fees for specific services. Her man a.k.a manager, charges clients more than the specified amount, pockets the ‘addition’ and keeps this from his woman. Thereby betraying his woman’s trust and hurting her. I mean who steals from their own? The amount of pain that is felt is not worth it, it is better to be hurt with the truth than comforted or protected with a lie.
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